深圳市万科梅沙书院:ControlYourEmotion控制你的情绪

You must control and direct your emotions not abolish them. Besides, abolition would be antimissile task. Emotions are like a river. Their power can be dammed up and released under control and direction, but is cannot be held forever in check. Sooner or later the dam will burst, unleashing catastrophic destruction.

Your negative emotions can also be controlled and directed. PMA and self-discipline can remove their harmful effects and make them serve constructive purposes. Sometimes fear and anger will inspire intense action. But you must always submit your negative emotions--and you positive ones--to the examination of your reason before releasing them. Emotion without reason is a dreadful enemy.

What faculty provides the crucial balance between emotions and reason? It is your willpower, or ego, a subject which will be explored in more detail below. Self-discipline will teach you to throw your willpower behind either reason or emotion and amplify the intensity of their expression.

Both your heart and your mind need a master, and they can find the master in your ego. However, your ego will fill their role only if you use self-discipline. In the absence of self-discipline, your mind and heart will fight their battles as they please. In this situation the person within whose mind the fight is carried out often gets badly hurt.

译文:你必需控制并导引你的心情而非摧毁它，况且摧毁心情是一件不可能的事情。心情就像河流一样，你能够筑一道堤防把它挡起来，并在控制和导引之下排放它，但却不能永远抑止它，否则那道堤防迟早会解体，并形成大灾难。

你的消极心态同样也可被控制和导引，积极心态和自律可去除其中有害的局部，而使这些消极心态能为目的奉献力气。有的时分恐惧和生气会激起出更彻底的行动，但是在你释放消极心情(以及积极心情)之前务必要让你的理性为它们做一番检验，缺乏理性的心情必然是一位可怕的敌人。

是什么力气使得心情和理性之间可以到达均衡呢?是意志力或自尊心(我将在以下做更细致的阐明)。自律会教诲你的意志力作为理性和心情的后台，并强化二者的表现强度。

你的感情和明智都需求一位主宰，而在你的自尊心里就可发现这个主宰，但是只要你在发挥你的自律肉体时，自尊心才会扮演好这个角色，假如没有了自律，你的明智和感情便会为所欲为地停止战争，战争结果当然是你会遭到严重的伤害。

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